spacemanspiff
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How old are you? Can you put of having kids for a couple of years?
26 and my wife is 29. She wants kids now because she is "getting old". Why do you ask?
How old are you? Can you put of having kids for a couple of years?
I disagree.. here in switzerland everyone puts their career first before kids.. and all the other parents i see with babies are in their 40s.. its a bit creepy..
Jump in the pool! Having kids is awesome, we just had our 2nd.. and my life, owning a lab with one income, is nothing but risk. You gotta have faith and work hard, find a balance, and never look back. Theres always an excuse to wait on having kids.. but theres nothing wrong with another tax deduction or two.
Live humbly, and dont be afraid to move to find a good job. If you want to drive a new car, then thats a different priority.
Ill give you an example, my sister had her baby at 18y/o for free because shes low or no income.. my daughter cost around 10k, with a $7500 ins. deductible.. haha So which is more risky? Get your insurance in order first, something i didnt look into!
to each his own.. I would never claim that older parents love their kids less.. Every couple knows when theyre ready.. Energy level is important.. and the older parents I see look like theyre walking the dog.. not really enjoying it. I dont see the passion or enthusiasm..
If you want kids because youre getting old, or because now your career is established.. maybe thats not the right reason to have a kid. Have them because you WANT them.
If you want kids, the time is now. Its the most fun Ive ever had in my life, only parents know how it feels.
experience pays more than a piece of paper.