I just routinely take a worn high speed football diamond and go around the inside of the soft tissue mask relieving it a bit. I then use this as my emergence. If the tissue is "overlapping" (usually interproximally) the platform and tight against the abutment, I adjust it a bit more to get better emergence and leave it at that. I have yet had a Dr ask for what we can do for better emergence, so I'm just leaving it that way for now.
From my understanding, the way the tissue fibers run, you can compress the tissue interproximally (impinge) within reason without causing to much harm, and the tissue will adapt. It's the buccal and lingual manipulating of the tissue (trying to push it out further) that can cause the irritation and recession due to the force of how the tissue fibers run. I guess that is why most of the time when we see "angry" labial/buccal tissue or recession (esp. crown and bridge),it's due to violating the tissue in this way.