From what I have been told, zir abutments in conical implants, like astratech and strauman, do not have the abrading issue because of the internal connection design.
My Atlantis rep stopped in earlier today and basically said the same. He also stated that Atlantis had researched the issue of broken zirc interfaces and found that most were related to improper seating, over-torqueing the screws, and a rougher surface at the zirconia interface.
About 10 or 12 months ago, they started including a positioning guide with all zirc abutments to avoid improper seating...it seems that some docs might start torqueing the abutments without them being fully seated at the bottom of the implant interface.
Atlantis has also started giving the zirconia interface a much more polished finish so that it will seat into the implant without quite so much friction.
Since making these adjustments, he stated that there have been almost no breakage problems.
Just remember, Atlantis made the abutment and designed it within FDA specs. If anybody needs to worry, it's the oral surgeon and Atlantis.